Friday, May 29, 2015

Never Say Goodbye


Beth, Alina, Lizzy, Aurelie, other Alina, me (holding Kita), Maarten (holding Mitzy), Ryan and Gerome in front of our vessel. We'll miss you Cake! 
            Last night we learned that there was space for four volunteer spots on the boat this morning. Alina, Lizzy and Beth had gone out to a bar in Gansbaai after the braai, and they didn’t come home until pretty late. When they got home they said that they’d probably prefer to just sleep the next morning, so we agreed that Aurelie, Ryan, the other Alina, and I would go out on the boat. When my alarm went off at 5:30 this morning, I headed out to the garage with Aurelie to start packing up the supplies for the boat. Alina soon arrived at the house and joined us. When Maarten arrived we asked him to go wake up Ryan in his room. Last night was his last night here at the volunteer house, so we’d all had a lot of fun, him especially. When he eventually showed up in the kitchen he said that, thankfully, he was feeling okay and definitely wanted to go out on the boat one last time. After walking down to the harbor in the darkness of the early morning and packing up the boat, we returned to the volunteer house to eat a quick breakfast before meeting the clients outside the white shark projects office at seven.
            We went back to the dam today since it was a very windy morning, and the island is more exposed than the dam. The first shark showed up pretty fast after we dropped anchor, and it turned into another really great morning for shark viewing. We saw a female that was over four meters long, which is definitely one of the biggest ones that we ever see around here. We also got some more great action with the shark that people either call “Slashfin” or “Razor”, the big female that has two big slashes through her dorsal fin, probably from a boat propeller. After being out on the water for about an hour and a half, the wind picked up even more and the swells got bigger, pushing the limits of what our boat can handle. We can go out if the swells are up to about three and a half meters. When we first left the harbor this morning they were about three meters, and got considerably more intense just as we pulled up anchor and started to leave. We’re not able to go out if they’re bigger than three and a half because the boat then has a higher risk of capsizing. The guests still all seemed to have a really good time while we were out on the boat, and Ryan said that it was a really good last trip for him.
            When we got back to the house, Lizzy, Beth and Alina were getting up. Maarten came with us back the house, and we all got pretty sad when Ryan rolled his suitcase out of his room. We’ve always called Ryan “Cake”, because it’s his last name and, as we said, that name is just too great to not use. Being the only male white shark projects volunteer for the time he was here, he was pretty sad to be leaving, and all the girls were certainly sad as well to see him go. We all walked down to the harbor one last time and took a picture of all of us in front of the shark team boat. Maarten and Gerome, another crew member that we’ve hung out with a lot, came down with us and got in the pic as well, which was nice because Maarten said he really didn’t like to be in pictures. Upon returning to the volunteer house, we all did one last shot in Cake’s honor, exchanged hugs, then he got in the white shark projects bus and left.
            It’s really interesting how in a span of merely two weeks, people can come into your life, come to pretty much feel like family, then leave again. Since all the other volunteers are from around Europe, I’m probably the least likely of all of us to ever see Cake again. Either way, we all had a lot of fun, life changing experiences in the two weeks that we were all volunteers together. On that note, this post’s food for thought- and title- is from a song that we were all recently listening and singing along to in a restaurant: “You and me and my old friends hoping it would never end. Holding on- we’ve got to try. Holding on to never say goodbye.”- Jon Bon Jovi

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